Tuesday, March 29, 2016

I’ve never got turned on by my fiancé or any man ever

Dear Bunmi,

I’ve been with my fiancé for over three years

and we have an adorable little boy. My problem

is, I’ve never got turned on by my fiance, or any

man, ever. Now, he’[caption id="attachment_952" align="aligncenter" width="159"]Love Love[/caption]

s upset because we haven’t

had sex for months and I’m afraid of telling him

why I’m off sex.



Dear Bimbo,

This really isn’t your fault. By the sound of it,

you have what therapists call primary sexual

dysfunction, so it’s very difficult for you to enjoy

sex. Your best bet is to confide in your partner.

He’ll find it much easier to sympathise and be

supportive if he knows you have a problem,

rather than thinking you’re rejecting him.

But you need to get help. See your doctor to

rule out any medical problem.

He will then put you on to a therapist who will

help you to get to the bottom of any emotional issues.

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