I’m angry! My hubby won’t even admire my expensive undies before…

Dear Bunmi ,

My husband was always complaining of how unadventurous I was in the bedroom. Specifically, he wanted me to invest in naughty under-wears that would turn him on. So when a friend recently came back from her business trip and had some sexy undies to sell, I bought quite a few.

I put them on the other day and was quite shocked and annoyed when he promptly ripped them off as his sick idea of foreplay! I spent all that money and made the effort to please him, but what’s the point if he’s not even going to look at it on me?
Kadijat, by e-mail

Dear Kadijat,
You didn't say how long you’ve been married, but having your husband rip your sexy underwear off in seconds to have his wicked way with you seems to me the knickers must have turned him on no end! I quite sympathise with your frustration.

So, next time, why don’t you first disappear into the bathroom, leaving him waiting in bed for you?
Then emerge to pose in the doorway with your sexy gears, before walking s-l-o- w-l-y over to the bed. If you can keep a straight face, let him know he’s only allowed to remove the items one by one - preferably with his teeth! Alternatively, put on your sexy underwear as you are both getting ready to go to work so he can’t do a thing other than admire you. And he would stew in his juice until you both get together later in the day!